That’s a small group of people. Not feminism as a whole. Feminism in general aims at overcoming the patriarchy and therefore creating true equality between the genders. Overcoming the patriarchy also means, that men are liberated from its chains. This means, that men are allowed to cry and show feelings without being judged.
Feminism is not something, that aims at dragging men down, but eleveting society as a whole.
I may not be able to talk about Linux for a solid two hours, but I can definitely talk for two hours about my music taste, communism or warframe depending on what they want to hear the least.